Everyone is familiar with “that guy.” He’s the one who’s semi-bald, kind of pudgy, and can’t put a decent outfit together to save his life. For some reason, however, women flock to him, and you can’t help but wonder why.

What these men don’t realize is that confidence is central this character’s success with women. In short, he’s an alpha male. Continue reading to learn five tips aimed at increasing your confidence with the opposite sex.

Tip #1 – Don’t act insecure

Alpha males know their worth inside and out. With that said, the first step toward becoming confident is to act the part. You may come off as inferior if:

• You stick your hands in your pockets.

• You fidget.

• You slouch.

• You cross your arms.

• You look or act nervous.

• You don’t own your space.

In contrast, here are some common displays of an alpha:

• You display direct eye contact.

• You never look around the room.

• You own your space by leaning back and looking comfortable.

• You breathe by using your stomach, not your chest.

Try these behaviors the next time you’re in public, and see how people respond. The results should amaze you.

Tip #2 – Think positively

Identify your weak and strong points. Get to the source of your lacking self esteem by looking within yourself, and figure out what inhibits you. On that same note, acknowledge your accomplishments and talents, and remind yourself of them daily.

Once you’ve assessed your personal feelings, it’s time to work on your body language. By their very nature, alpha males are calm and relaxed, so whenever you’re in a social situation, envision yourself like this, and live it.

Tip #3 – Have Fun
 
When interacting with women, unconfident men are nervous and fidgety. They stress over what she’s thinking, doing, and saying, and as a result, they turn her off.

Confident men, on the other hand, are the complete opposite. Rather than worry about the outcome of a date, they relax and enjoy the ride. As a result, they come off as calm and collected, which is a complete turn on to females.

A man who is secure in his own skin does not need a woman’s approval of him. Our feelings inside will always be reflected on the outside, so placing too much importance on what others think will only hurt your chances.

Conclusion

There is only one secret to attracting the opposite sex, and that is to become an alpha male. Be confident, and command your due respect through powerful body language and confidence. A man doesn’t need fame or fortune to have an amazing sex life; he just needs to know that he’s worth it.