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		<title>7 Secrets to Attracting Hot and Desirable Women</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[With the onset of the Internet, the dating arena has forever changed. People can pick and choose their mates more easily, and it&#8217;s become even easier to be unfaithful. In spite of these changes, men everywhere are using the same tactics for attracting women. This article aims to change that.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-55" href="http://exzoticbarbie.com/approaching-women/magical-tactics-proven-tactics-to-attract-women/attachment/girl_4/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-55" title="girl_4" src="http://exzoticbarbie.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/girl_4-222x300.jpg" alt="" width="222" height="300" /></a>With the onset of the Internet, the dating arena has forever changed. People can pick and choose their mates more easily, and it&#8217;s become even easier to be unfaithful. In spite of these changes, men everywhere are using the same tactics for attracting women. This article aims to change that.</p>
<p>Read on to learn 7 tips for dating in today&#8217;s society&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>1. Make her meet your standards:</strong></p>
<p>Most guys don&#8217;t have a clue when it comes to talking to women. They get mushy, agreeing with everything a woman says in order to gain her approval. What they don&#8217;t know is that doing the exact opposite would be much more effective. Instead of drowning her in compliments, casually challenge something she says. If you indicate that she has to meet your standards, you instantly become a challenge&#8230;and she&#8217;ll be interested.</p>
<p><strong>2. Don&#8217;t talk to a wall:</strong></p>
<p>It happens every day. A man who&#8217;s interested in a woman keeps harping on a conversation that she&#8217;s not contributing to. In his mind, he thinks that if he just keeps trying, she&#8217;ll grow interested. She won&#8217;t. Instead of trying so hard, consider your time valuable, and leave the situation. Realize that if she was interested, she would be talking to you. If not, then it&#8217;s her loss.</p>
<p><strong>3. Don&#8217;t act anxious:</strong></p>
<p>You can get almost anything you want from a woman, as long as you conduct yourself confidently. If you want to ask her out, just say the words. Don&#8217;t stutter or shake, otherwise you&#8217;ll turn her off. Instead, ask her as though she&#8217;d be a fool to reject you. Doing so has a powerful impact on the mind, and she&#8217;ll naturally give you what you want.</p>
<p><strong>4. Don&#8217;t be so sensitive:</strong></p>
<p>The fear of being turned down prevents many men from even trying. To them, rejection is a direct indication of their value as a person. They feel as though they&#8217;re undesirable, but this couldn&#8217;t be further from the truth. Maybe she&#8217;s involved with someone else, or maybe she&#8217;s just stuck up. You just don&#8217;t know. Just accept her &#8220;no&#8221; with a smile on your face, and move on to someone else. If you think about it, where&#8217;s the fun in being with someone who doesn&#8217;t appreciate you?</p>
<p><strong>5. Take control:</strong></p>
<p>Once you&#8217;ve asked her out and she said yes, it&#8217;s time for you to take control. Instead of asking her what she&#8217;d like to do, just take her some place.</p>
<p>Women expect men to be in charge, so don&#8217;t let her down. You should direct every aspect of your time together, from the date to the intimacy. Doing so will display to her just how much of a man you really are.</p>
<p><strong>6. Know how to talk to her:</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s natural to be nervous about date conversation, but a man in control doesn&#8217;t show it. Instead, he prepares ahead of time. Before he even picks up his date, he&#8217;s got a collection of funny stories and jokes in his mind to fuel the dialog. In addition, he&#8217;s got plenty of practice engaging people, from his family to strangers.</p>
<p>The next time you&#8217;re out with buddies, chat up the bartender or person sitting next to you. The more you sharpen your conversational skills, the more at ease you will be sitting face-to-face with that gorgeous girl.</p>
<p><strong>7. Know your worth:</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s natural to want a woman to like you, just as long as you don&#8217;t show her that. Don&#8217;t market yourself to her in an effort to make her like you. Instead, just assume that you&#8217;re worth her time, and she will naturally pick up on that. If you want to know the truth, bragging is a big turnoff to women, so don&#8217;t ramble on about your many achievements. Just relax, solid in the knowledge that you&#8217;ve got what she wants.</p>
<p><strong>Final Thoughts</strong></p>
<p>No matter what time era you&#8217;re in, these dating tips are valuable to any single man. Remember that the secret to attracting women is all in your delivery. If you approach a female with confidence, you&#8217;ll naturally command respect.</p>
<p>Know your value, and don&#8217;t settle for anyone who you feel doesn&#8217;t deserve it. If you become a challenge to the women you engage with, you&#8217;ll be all the more irresistible to them. If, on the other hand, a woman doesn&#8217;t return your interest, move on. You&#8217;ve got something incredible that she&#8217;s going to miss out on.</p>
<p><strong>Now, here Is a 6 Word &#8220;Pick Up Line&#8221; That Works On Every Beautiful Woman 97% of The Time Regardless of Your Age, Looks or Financial Condition&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Most people don&#8217;t believe that it&#8217;s even possible for an average guy to pick up a hot girl&#8230;But let me prove it with some solid proof&#8230;Here is a pick up line I constantly use that never fails no matter how hot the girl is.</p>
<p>Next time you sight an attractive woman&#8230;Go up to her&#8230;Stand at a convenient distance and stare at her hair&#8230;While doing it make a weird face&#8230;As if you saw something strange.</p>
<p>Then say- <em>You have something in your hair…</em></p>
<p>She would get conscious and ask you where?</p>
<p>Then say- <em>Wait…Let me do it for you. Rub your hands through her<br />
hair and say…There you go…All clean now. That would be 10 bucks.</em></p>
<p>She would say- <em>What for?</em></p>
<p>Reply by saying- <em>I don&#8217;t clean people for free&#8230;</em></p>
<p>She&#8217;ll either laugh or hesitate.</p>
<p>Then say- <em>Well! You seem cute&#8230;If you are broke let me give you a bargain deal. You can buy me a drink. </em></p>
<p>And bam! Within seconds you&#8217;ve sparked a high energy conversation with a female stranger.</p>
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		<title>The Art Of Approaching Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 18:29:49 +0000</pubDate>
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The most important part of dating and seduction has to do with being able to meet the kind of women you want.  The problem is, most guys can&#8217;t do that!  They may get tongue-tied, don&#8217;t know what to say, or just simply freeze up &#8212; paralized with fear!
The good news is that now there is [...]]]></description>
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<p>The most important part of dating and seduction has to do with being able to meet the kind of women you want.  The problem is, most guys can&#8217;t do that!  They may get tongue-tied, don&#8217;t know what to say, or just simply freeze up &#8212; paralized with fear!</p>
<p>The good news is that now there is a book that can help you with all your problems with meeting and dating women so you never have to let another opportunity pass you by again.  This book is called &#8220;The Art Of Approaching.&#8221;  If you can learn what this book has to teach you, meeting beautiful women will quickly become second nature to you.</p>
<p>The big advantage you receive with &#8220;The Art Of Approaching&#8221; course is an exact, step-by-step method is laid down for you to follow that will have you meeting tons of women in no time.  It covers all the bases, from meeting a woman, to attracting her, how to pick up on the subtle cues she sends out to let you know she likes you, and to creating confidence within yourself so you don&#8217;t have to worry about rejection or uncertainty.</p>
<p>Author Joseph Matthews says &#8220;I used to be completely hopeless with women.  I was too afraid of rejection to ever talk to a woman I found attractive.  But through much trial and error, I discovered a way to overcome my fear and meet the kind of women I enjoy.  I wrote this book to share my methods and hard work so that other guys don&#8217;t have to go through what I did to get good with women.  I wanted it to be the ultimate starter-guide for men looking to improve their love life, and judging by the amazing emails I&#8217;m getting from readers who can now meet and attract any woman<br />
they choose, I think I succeeded.&#8221;</p>
<p>Deep inside &#8220;The Art Of Approaching,&#8221; Joseph spills the beans about what it takes to empower yourself as a man and attract women to you.  The book is broken down into different sections. <br />
Some of them are:</p>
<p>* The Art Of Body Languge<br />
* The Art Of Confidence<br />
* The Art Of Approaching<br />
* The Art Of Flirting<br />
* The Art Of Storytelling<br />
* The Art Of Being Social</p>
<p>Every facet of meeting and attracting women is explored in depth in these sections.  The best section, by far, is on confidence &#8212; a subject that little to no other authors would ever go as in depth into.  After reading this section, however, I&#8217;m convinced Joseph has discovered a way to truly instill a powerful set of believes and get rid of any fear of rejection or failure you could ever have when it comes to women.</p>
<p>&#8220;The Art Of Approaching&#8221; ebook is perhaps the most useable and practical book of it&#8217;s kind on the net. It will produce fast results for you and this is what counts the most.  And if you find the book is not for you, Joseph offers a money-back guarantee, so you can check out the book risk free.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;d like to learn more about &#8220;The Art Of Approaching,&#8221; click the link below:</p>
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		<title>3 Flirting Signals Women Use to Get You to Approach Them</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 01:38:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re like most guys, you&#8217;re clueless when it comes to women hitting on you. In her mind, she&#8217;s being more than obvious about her intentions. You, on the other hand, have zero indication that she&#8217;s interested.
This article aims to fix that problem permanently. From this point on, you&#8217;ll be able to detect the multiple [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-95" href="http://exzoticbarbie.com/overcoming-your-fears/why-you-are-failing-with-women/attachment/girl_9/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-95" title="girl_9" src="http://exzoticbarbie.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/girl_9.jpg" alt="" width="201" height="143" /></a>If you&#8217;re like most guys, you&#8217;re clueless when it comes to women hitting on you. In her mind, she&#8217;s being more than obvious about her intentions. You, on the other hand, have zero indication that she&#8217;s interested.</p>
<p>This article aims to fix that problem permanently. From this point on, you&#8217;ll be able to detect the multiple signals women use to flirt, and as a result, you&#8217;ll reap the benefits of a healthier and more active sex life.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be the first to admit that women are confusing. It&#8217;s not uncommon for a man to think a woman is flirting with him, only to realize that he was wrong. These mixed signals are enough to drive even the sanest guy up a wall. Men are typically very straight forward when it comes to flirting, leaving no guessing room for our intentions.</p>
<p>Women, on the other hand, work a bit more mysteriously.</p>
<p>Rather than lay all of her cards on the table, a woman will usually flirt via her subconscious. In other words, she unknowingly gives off various signals to indicate her level of interest. The sooner you learn how to read these signals, the sooner you&#8217;ll be getting phone numbers.</p>
<p>For starters, let&#8217;s get to the million-dollar question: How can you tell if a woman is genuinely flirting with you? The last thing you need is to get your hopes up over a girl who (in spite of her incessant flirting) says she &#8220;just wants to be friends,&#8221; so where is the line drawn? The solution to this problem is simple…read her body.</p>
<p>The following are three signals women emit before you even strike up a conversation with them. If you sense she&#8217;s sending any of these your way, take action.</p>
<p><strong>Signal #1- She can&#8217;t take her eyes off of you</strong></p>
<p>Think about it: If you see something you like, you tend to look at it a lot. It&#8217;s the whole “apple of my eye” theory, and it holds true for women as well.</p>
<p>When you&#8217;re in a social situation, there will be instances when you make eye contact with a girl or two. I&#8217;m not referring to this. What I am referring to is that dame in the corner who (every time you look up) continues to have her sights set on you. Consider this as her non-verbal way of giving you the green light.</p>
<p>Many women rely solely on eye contact to flirt. Rather than approaching you to start a conversation, a girl who is interested will “encourage” you to take the first step using nothing but her eyes. With that said, if you keep making eye contact with that hottie across the room, take action.</p>
<p><strong>Signal #2- She&#8217;s starved for your attention</strong></p>
<p>Out of all the methods women use to flirt, this one flies under a guy&#8217;s radar most often. For some reason, a man will think nothing when a woman constantly sits by him, makes small talk, or goes to great efforts to be where he is. If you ask me, this one is a no brainer!</p>
<p>Men…wake up! I cannot stress this enough. Assess the situation, and don&#8217;t disregard that girl who is constantly in your company. This is especially true if she leaves her friends behind in order to be near you. Odds are she&#8217;s there for a reason.</p>
<p><strong>Signal #3- She flashes a smile your way</strong></p>
<p>A smile is understood across all cultures as a welcoming greeting. With that said, if a woman flashes you her pearly whites, she&#8217;s open to you.</p>
<p>Similar to making eye contact, when a woman sends a smile your way, she&#8217;s well aware that she is sending you a message. Put plainly, she&#8217;s telling you that you&#8217;re welcome to come and get to know her. You may not realize this, but every day, women have to work hard to avoid men they&#8217;re not attracted to.</p>
<p>She wouldn&#8217;t smile at you if she wasn&#8217;t interested.</p>
<p><strong>Final Thoughts</strong></p>
<p>If you notice any of these three signs of flirting, it&#8217;s time to take action. Rather than confuse a man, these signals are aimed directly at seduction, so learn how to detect them. They are clear cut messages women use to indicate a stronger desire, but it&#8217;s up to you to look for them.</p>
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